29 April 2009

THE IMPORTANCE OF CHICA FRIENDS IN A GAY'S LIFE ...

. . Lovers and boyfriends may come and go, and you CAN really live happily "without them" (speaking of experience!) ... but not without a true gay friend or a group of gay friends that you can talk to and have "chika" time forever and ever .... . And forgive me for saying ..."The true meaning of a faggot is to have a true faggot friend or friendz!" . Sadly enough, I have only found this kind of friends when I was working overseas - and that was more than ten years ago .... and though our gayship survived (the test of time and distance) through highs and lows by mails, emails and infrequent phone calls, this genuine friendship keeps going strong and matures as we grow older - and could be ignited over and over again by one screaming email or a surprise phone call .... and prank photos...!!! . A mix of Steel Magnolias, Thelma and Louise, Sex in the City, and Charlies Angels ... our friendship was made in Hell and Heaven ... Best Friends Forever !!! . Beyond envy, contempt or competition - We have become truly happy for each other's successes or depressed for each other's falls but NOT without those wonderful sarcasm and and colorful expletives that would shame Jessica Zafra! These are the friends that you can be super shallow, super carefree and super happy! And yet still see - your heart! . Just like Barbie (or Bratz) - - - although these friends are certainly not made of plastic - "you can certainly brush their hair, undress them anywhere ....!!! And then talk about Kafka or Dostoevsky ... and our constant common source of depressions! . I MISS ALL OF YOU! . XOXOXO

4 comments:

Lyka Bergen said...

True ito Very true. Very Existentialism. Very Kafka!

Chos!

Kyels said...

It's true me thinks. And so do you miss me?

:P

How have you been ate? I've been busy with work po.

Dawn Selya said...

Friends become our families. And they are even better. Because you can pick your friends and you can't do the same thing with your real family. :)

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